You need to get in a place were you don't know or care what she's doing, a place where you write her off and respect yourself too much to put up with this BS, a place where you move forward with your life without her.
Originally Posted by DnJ
I don’t believe anyone deserves to be just written off; not even a cheating spouse. To me that shows good character. Strength. Honour. Self respect. Its how one treats their fellow man, not just their waitress.
Just want to clarify the intention behind my comment because DnJ makes a good point. Didn't to say W should be cast off and written off as a person altogether. I was referring to your mindset. Just that you need to get away from the "waiting at home and hope she's safe from her trip" to a a frame of don't care if she's even back and are moving forward with your life and not even seeing her in your future. IF she's going to come back, it'll most likely only happen once you're totally over her and having a blast with your life and not even thinking it'll happen at all.
Originally Posted by BL42
Have you read Love Must Be Tough by James Dobson? Might be a good one for you and your situation with your religious ties and your W's wayward behavior.
Read this book if you haven't.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
