Mach40,
Originally Posted by Mach40
I think the problem here is people, men mostly, feel I need to be having sexual relations with her already.
No one's saying there's a a firm requirement to have had sex already. What we are saying is that if you continue to stay platonic over time there will reach a point where the relationship is establish as a friendship and not romantic. So be aware of that.

Originally Posted by Mach40
Once we get better, I will get busy with her, and explain in detail how things went.. I feel it, and I know she feels it. The sexual banter is fun.
If you're feeling the romantic / sexual dynamic than you know better than us - you're living it, not us.

Originally Posted by Mach40
But the similarities among other people throughout the years is incredible. People seem to be creatures of habit..
Not sure what you're referring to here?


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21