Originally Posted by FwdMvmnt
The IHS makes it so difficult to fully detach, and easy sometimes to get drawn back in
For sure. IHS is incredibly difficult.

Originally Posted by FwdMvmnt
As for me. I am constantly working on my spiritual, emotional and intellectual growth. I am doing well in my program, hitting meetings and meeting with my sponsor on the weeks I’m in town. I am still doing weekly coaching sessions and a self paced integrated man program. Spiritually I am continue to grow my relationship and connection with God, my prayers and meditations are very healing. I love riding the Harley when weather permits and doing as much Krav as schedule allows. I am still the rock for my children which will never change and know that whatever happens here I’ll be ok.
Good stuff, FwdMvmnt. Keep it up. Not for your W but for yourself and you kids.

Hang in there FwdMvmnt. It's gonna get better.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21