Stuck in limbo V

[Doug54]

Here's the secret:

It's up to you, not her.

It's your timeline.

It's when YOU'VE had enough.

That's why we say focus on you.

That's why we say strong GAL activities.

That's why we say don't wait. if you absorb nothing else, absorb this:

STANDING IS NOT WAITING

Thanks, bttrfly. I am reading "Women in Midlife Crisis" by Jim & Sally Conway (recommended on this forum) and it's crazy how much of W I see in some of the descriptions, especially the self-esteem / self-image parts, focusing on looks to try to ward of the feeling of aging, and how people become susceptible to an affair.

Assume status quo continues, I will almost certainly have "had enough" by the summer.