Here's the secret:

It's up to you, not her.

It's your timeline.

It's when YOU'VE had enough.

That's why we say focus on you.

That's why we say strong GAL activities.

That's why we say don't wait. if you absorb nothing else, absorb this:

STANDING IS NOT WAITING

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver