Bttrfly & BL- I agree it seems fishy. When we talked about it after the first incident I asked W if she told him about the games. She of course said no. When I saw him at the 2nd tournament, I just figured he found out from someone in the bball program. He seemed to know a lot of people there.
Mach-In the beginning I did compare myself, hard not to. I stopped doing that after awhile though when I realized it did no good. I will admit when he showed up to the first tournament I started doing it again. At the second tournament I had the same thought as you- I'm sitting here with her and he is probably wishing he was. I really did handle it well last weekend. I was only mildly annoyed at seeing him and just let it go. While I would love to beat his azz, I made sure where he was each time I got up to use the restroom or go to the concession stand. I wanted to avoid running into him at all costs so I wouldn't say or do anything. Especially in that setting. It never occurred to me that W "staring" at him could have very well been her wondering why he was there as well. My thoughts were that she told him. It wouldn't make sense for her to tell him knowing that I would be there. And she knows I would. D13 has played multiple sports, s17 played sports and was in band, d223 was in band and marching band. I have never missed a, nor will I, any of my kids events. I played sports most of my childhood and my parents rarely attended anything. Most of the time I had to catch rides everywhere. When my kids started, I made sure to never let anything I could control cause me to miss their activities. So far I'm batting 1000 and proud of it. Let me tell you, some of those band concerts were brutal though. Thanks for the input as always. What's the KWIM at the bottom of your post?
