My wife says she is done

[Dats000]

How's it going Dats?

Well I’ve been dealing with my wife wanting to tell the kids. She still wants the divorce and I know at this point it is what’s going to happen. We were gonna do it earlier this week but she ended up crying all day and I was emotional so we both decide not to do it. The rest of the week was just too busy with kids activities and school. This morning she told me that she got the place to live that she wanted. so we will be telling them soon she wants to do it Sunday. She just left out of town with my son right now. They will get back Sunday. As far as myself I’ve been reading some self help books working on my social skills with other parents at my kids activities. taking walks, sometimes with a friend, we are reading the same children’s love and logic parenting book so we go over that together. doing a lot of photography at my kids activities sharing with other parents which they love. Trying real hard to just do positive reinforcement with my kids. No lectures. Still seeing my IC weekly he told me that I’ve been doing better than anyone he has worked with which obviously made me feel good. I told him I bet he tells that to all his patients. But he convinced me that he really meant it. He is impressed with me getting off the recliner and exercising. He can tell that I’ve gained confidence in walking into this uncertainty and gaining confidence in myself presentation with others

All of that said I’m very fearful of what’s to come next for me and my kids.