My wife says she is done

[Dats000]

I told her that I wanna wait until Christmas.

Hopefully you meant AFTER Christmas.


Do you want to tell the children?

If the answer is no, then the next time she brings it up:

W:"It's after Christmas, when do you want to tell the children?"
H:"I do not want to tell the children, but this D is your choice and I will support your decision. I believe we should tell them after you found a place to live."
W:"You keep pushing this out bla bla bla" in a frustrated tone
H:"The sooner you move out, the sooner we can tell them"
W"bla bla bla" in an angry tone.
H:"You sound angry." Then keep validate her emotional state.

W told me this morning that she got the place to live that she has been looking at. This was right before she left with S12 out of town for the weekend. She said that we should tell the kids when she gets home. Now I sit here by myself just feeling rotten. Mostly because knowing that the children will know soon (probably already have a good idea) and the fear of what is ahead of me in my new life that I wasn’t asking for.