Thanks LH, makes sense. So not only does she have to want to be with me, she must be willing to work on herself. Same rules that apply to me.
Well it depends on what kind of relationship you want moving forward. She could just slide back into the relationship and you end up moving forward in a roommate situation. You have to decide what works for you.
On a side note does om have kids at these games? Why is he there?
He does not have kids at the games. He has a niece that plays either jv or varsity but these are games in a freshman league. I guess he’s there to watch his old high school freshman team? Annoying regardless.
I get the feeling when I read this, that you are somehow comparing yourself to this asshat....
Wondering what he has that you don't, and vice versa....
And I feel like that could be the source of what you feel when you see him. Aside from the anger of how a person could do this of course....
Are you comparing yourself to him in any way ???
Cause Mike....dude....
There is no comparison.....
He is only a symptom of the situation that you are in right now. A band-aid of sorts for what's going through her head....
This POS could be randomly showing up, and what you construe as her staring at him could very well be her wondering WTF he is doing there too....
I always want to defeat my enemy in their face, rather than behind his back. So while he is maybe wanting....YOU are the one there with her....
Applaud the 2% that she is doing right, rather than the rest she is doing wrong.
Life is about perspective.
So stop comparing yourself to this bottom feeder, cause in my book, he ain't half the dude you are....
And as long as you are in competition with him, then you stay at his level.
The goal is for YOU to rise above where you were...
