So do you think she rethink her decision if she sees cold and distant guy or funny laughter happy banter guy?
This thing with the neighbor, is it a friendship or the building of a relationship?
Hey, No, I dont think that she will rethink the decision. Not the point. I dont want her back. But, I dont want to be a jerk to her. I still have a relationship with the girls, her daughters. Over time, life events will always bring us back in the same arena. Cant hold a grudge, act like I never knew her. Eventually I have to be comfortable around her and accept her/our decision to move forward without faking it. If that makes sense. Lady and I are doing well. I cant afford to get sick, do to my career.. So, we are just doing non physical stuff for now. We are flirting, touching etc, and building up. I think once this cold is completely gone, we will go further faster.... We are both foodies and travelers, so we have been talking about doing things together that involves both. Really liking her. Oh, and she has a Masters in business, and a forensic degree ( hard field to get into, she tried, didnt work out).
