Right now you're hoping he's going to "snap out of it" and return to you. Do not bank on that. Work on your detachment and move forward with your life. If he does come back it likely will not be soon and likely only when you've moved on and no longer even thinking of him as an option.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
