Thanks LH, makes sense. So not only does she have to want to be with me, she must be willing to work on herself. Same rules that apply to me.
Well it depends on what kind of relationship you want moving forward. She could just slide back into the relationship and you end up moving forward in a roommate situation. You have to decide what works for you.
On a side note does om have kids at these games? Why is he there?
He does not have kids at the games. He has a niece that plays either jv or varsity but these are games in a freshman league. I guess he’s there to watch his old high school freshman team? Annoying regardless. Based on conversations earlier in this situation, I’m afraid the roommate situation is a possibility in her mind. She currently still initiates sex though. She is aware that a sexless marriage will not work for me and that I’m not interested in a roommate. We shall see.
