Well I think I got my answer, or at least part of it, courtesy of D18. She said W was talking to her in the car the other day and said she was going to kill me with kindness because she is about to break my heart. W has been noticeably nicer the past week or so, but this is the exact reason you guys say not to get hopes up after positive interactions. You never know the actual motive behind the behavior.
Truthfully she probably doesn't like breaking your heart but won't let that keep her from preventing her PERCEIVED happiness.
Originally Posted by DW17
It's weird to me that W is pretending to care about breaking my heart. She did that months ago by being unfaithful again and turning into a terrible mother to my kids.
So ask yourself what are you trying to save DW?
Originally Posted by DW17
My broken heart has been healing as I’ve tried to accept her as the person she actually is rather than the person I wish she was. I know feelings change, but I don’t know that I’ll feel anything other than disappointment toward her.
Why are you disappointed in her?
Originally Posted by DW17
She recommended that I try to negotiate with W first and if I need her to look over any paperwork or anything, she will just bill me for that time.
You have a good lawyer! Negotiate while she is feeling guilty because that won't last long.
