Shocking LH has number 3 as number 1. 🙄. I’m honestly amazed ( but to each his own) that for a man I’m his 50’s that is number 1, because that is the one thing that goes away very soon. Unless you are speaking in terms of mental and emotional attraction, not physical. I understand it being on the list, but having it top of the list blows my mind
I was ranking it by categories available to me. I am a man and that is how the majority of men choose their mates. You are hockey fan. How many hockey player's wives are not hot? It's not solely looks, you can't be hot and a biotch that does not work for me.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
My cousin is currently in a very toxic marriage she is staying in for her 10 year old son and financial implications. Her and her husband have awful fights. She hates him and is disgusted by him. He’s a mean A hole. They don’t hold back. What their son is witnessing is no way better than having a “broken home “ this home IS broken.
I agree. I have gave up trying to convince him of that.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
So to speak to what BL is saying, if you are going to stay together for the kids, the relationship does need to be worked on.
Actually, no it doesn't.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
They wouldn’t be acting toxic AF on front of the children .
They try to keep it from the kids as much as possible.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
I actually don’t give credit to parent who “stay together for the Kids” if they are not working on their toxic behavior. There are parents who stay together for the kids, but live in peace, respect each other, but the romantic portion of their relationship is gone. That is commendable . But not when you continue to act toxic around the kids in the home .
