Having plans show her you’re busy have a life and are not waiting around for her to change her mind. That makes you someone of value. That’s not pushing her away.
You go to this dinner 100% she will kick you in the nuts metaphorically speaking.
But how are you supposed to talk if I am pretending to be always busy? I've rejected dinner two times already due to other commitments. I am busy most of the time these days due to meetings with friends/travelling/work commitments. Can't think of a day these past two weeks that I just spent lying in bed/sofa doing nothing.
Originally Posted by BL42
Originally Posted by TellMeSo
We agreed to have a dinner soon.
When you say "we"...who initiated the dinner plans? Did you ask or did she? And if you asked, was she eager and enthusiastic or tentative and reluctant?
Well I mentioned that it would be interesting to go for a dinner several weeks ago, but did not push her to accept it and even forgot about it. Last week she brought it up herself and asked me when we should go for it. No reluctance.
She was "eager" to learn about my future plans when I briefly mentioned them.
