She’s definitely feeling better, thank you very much. She was able to do a tik tok dance last night. I knew when she couldn’t stand up straight and tik tok something was wrong, lol. She was a great patient, I’m proud of her.
VU- this past summer D went on a vacation with her dad and her stepmothers parents. They rented a house in Puerto Rico. D was not having a good time and her dad lost his wallet or something, so they came home a day early together . They were sitting on the plane and the ex was in IG messenger with his wife’s best best friend. D, saw the text exchange. “I miss you’s, I can’t want to see you “ and kissy faces. Then when they got home, her dad left the house and said he was going to NY and don’t tell His wife. D noticed he was wearing the shirt that this woman bought him ( apparently she gets him a Harley t shirt when she travels) and a second souvenir, one that D noticed he bought 2 of. D was very very very upset. She told me what she saw that night. I’m the end she decided she didn’t want to tell her father what she knew. It’s me and D who know. She’s pretty much put it out of her mind. 2 weeks prior Ex took a solo trip to the island of St Maarten. He left his wife behind and took himself to a tropical island. I had suspected something then, and this kind of confirmed it. I do think his wife knows he is cheating and is turning a blind eye, however, I don’t think she knows that he is cheating with her married best friend.
On another note, I think my filter is coming off sometimes around my D now that she is older about her father and it probably isn’t good. Super Bowl Sunday is his weekend. Every year they go to his sisters party and he starts at 2pm with a poker game. D informed me yesterday that she and her friend will be babysitting 9 of the kids of the guests at someone else’s house. She then informed me I have to bring them. I said “it’s your dads weekend and you are babysittting for the party, he can take you” she says, oh, well he’s going to be in the middle of his poker game. I said “ maybe I had plans?” Her “you never have plans on Super Bowl Sunday!” ( this is true, but still) I’m just more vocal now. I know I am the one D can rely on and I certainly don’t want to put her in the middle. But this man is just living his best life over there with no real responsibility. I mean, I guess I “allowed it” but it’s my kid and I’m going to do for her.
