Holy smokes I agree with all 5 maybe just in a slightly different order.
Nah she hates him too. It’s a very toxic marriage that 100% can not be saved. She cheated many years ago and he’s never gotten over it. She physically and emotionally abuses him and he has zero clue how to communicate with her or his children. I just listen for about an hour a week how bad it is for him but he is staying for kids.
You’re young and you have time to see this out for a year or so. If she’s feeling like a caged animal she’ll eventually want out of the cage.
