Doug,

Would I would do is start thinking about dealbreakers. Saying I’m riding it out a little while longer is pointless. This isn’t ending anytime soon. It’s highly unlikely she’s going to just magically fall in love with you again. Best you can likely hope for is status quo for the next 7-10 years. If you can live like that for the kids sake then there is nothing wrong with it. I have a friend who hates his W but stays for the kids. It works for him. What works for you Doug?