That has to be difficult on a teenager, especially a boy seeing his mom do it when he's getting interest in girls. Did he need to find out about the surgery via imessages? Aren't they noticable?
She more or less took care to wear loose-fitting stuff, but it was certainly only a matter of time until that cat was out of the bag.
Originally Posted by BL42
Also not your job to fix their relationship. W is making her choices and it's impacting her family. She's going to have to deal with the consequences.
BL, what do you think happened to your wife? Like, was she not on the young side for MLC? Trying to recall what I read in your threads.
I will tell you, you have been right about trying to slow down in the moment and feelings changing. As I wrote at the top of my last post, I feel like I cycle between wanting to blow the marriage up myself if W isn't going to vs. waiting things out a little longer.
