This is a fantastic book for you considering your situation IMO.
Originally Posted by FwdMvmnt
Like I mentioned I have been struggling a little more with detaching from W, she has been coming downstairs at night to watch TV, hugging and kissing as well as dropping a few ILY. I do not take them as anything just causes confusion in me.
She's still engaging with OM(s), correct? If so you might not want to accept that behavior.
Originally Posted by FwdMvmnt
I know she is starting to work steps in both of her programs, which gives me hope for her.
Good.
Originally Posted by FwdMvmnt
She has also gotten a little more engaged with S6.
Good.
Originally Posted by FwdMvmnt
As for our marriage I am standing for it, but not holding onto Hope. I think God is really trying to show me that I need to learn patience. I give it to him each day and pray for a path to be shown.
"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference."
Originally Posted by FwdMvmnt
I am torn for him because I know this marriage will most likely not end well and worry about him through all of this.
See above.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
