Stuck in limbo V

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Doug54,

Son (15) found out about the breast augmentation and a few details of W's illicit relationship.

That has to be difficult on a teenager, especially a boy seeing his mom do it when she's getting interest in girls. Did he need to found out about the surgery via imessages? Aren't they noticable?

I had to have a talk with him about, "Listen, that's still your mother and I think she's going through a tough time right now and it's complicated."

Good job taking the high road. He knows what's going on and will make his own conclusions anyway.

He seemed pretty disgusted with her, especially since she got the implants and we're not really rolling in money. I think their relationship is definitely frayed for the time being.

Also not your job to fix their relationship. W is making her choices and it's impacting her family. She's going to have to deal with the consequences.

I do kind of feel a little bad for W at times. I can't remember who said it, but I read a line on here about "people who are happy don't make all these changes to their life."

Indeed.