I had a blast at the party. Really glad I went.

I woke up to a very unexpected message from H.

"If you still feel that there is something you want to talk about, I can do it. Just FYI."

For context, I had previously told him that I thought it was unwise to rush into a life-changing decision without any discussion.

First time he's reached out like this since BD.

I am wary. Is he playing nice because I spooked him? Meaning, he's scared of what my L might do to him? Or is this him wanting to have an R talk (but weirdly trying to pin it on me)? A touch-and-go?

Not sure how to respond. Because frankly every interaction we have disturbs my equilibrium. But maybe he has something to say.