Continue moving forward. You have a life to live and that means going forward and not looking back in the rearview mirror.
If and when your spouse wakes up, that will be the time to decide whether you want to reconcile and/or just continue on with your life as it is at that time. Leave her in God's hands for he will continue to work on her and who knows...she just may bake up into a totally different, more mature person.
Some eventually wake up and others will continue on the path of self-destruction and/or bitter, angry people who continue to feel entitled to the day that pass away. None of us can predict what will take place. That's why it is very, very important that you do not put your life on hold and continue to ask yourself "what if".
BTW, it has taken my xh to finally reach out 22 1/2 years later to apologize for his selfish behavior, etc. I just wanted to provide you with an example of how long some of them take to apologize. Some never do.
Continue to focus on you and your life. You only have the one life, live it to the fullest. The past is in the rearview mirror and there's nothing you can do to change it, the present is a gift. A gift that you can work on and plan for the future. The future is not ours to predict, but we sure can start thinking about it and hope that we can fulfill our dreams along the way.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
