Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by Ginger1
Basically you get the boyfriend experience, without actually having to be a boyfriend?
Well the other side of this is she gets the GF experience without being the GF.

That works great if she doesn’t want to be the girlfriend.

I’m
A fan of whatever works for both parties. It’s takes a lot of honesty, transparency, and quite frankly, bluntness of both sides. Often times one side will say they are cool when they are really not.

But as long as spiral and his girl are happy.

I don’t know that I could date a separated man with an ex that won’t give him a divorce and comes in and hangs up their wedding pictures. And knowing the guy won’t commit, I would think he’s certainly holding that door open.

That’s just me. Everyone is different, there is no right and no wrong. Spiral and his gal seem to really enjoying their situation