bttryfly,

She knows who I'm seeing. She checks my social media and there are hints. We also have teenagers who always check my whereabouts if at all possible. I agree that some of it is that.

K,

Partner is probably too strong a word. I date one person at a time, but I make no commitments. I also have no intention of reconciliation. And the wedding pictures were put away the next day without much comment beyond a why. You're right about putting some things in place. I just wasn't expecting it. She filed for divorce immediately, got engaged immediately, and pretty much disappeared without looking back. But I wasn't seeing anyone in particular before.