I find myself saying this rather often… but trying to analyse why WS/WAS do dumb sh*t is a one-way ticket to the crazy house.
It’s impossible to understand things which don’t make sense 🤷♂️
What IS important, is to work out what YOU want and focus on that.
It could be that she sees you with another woman, and is worried her old monkey-branch is feeling a bit less secure. Figures she’ll go hang your wedding photos and see what happens, so she can determine if it’s still nice and solid while she does more dumb sh*t.
You need to put yourself in the shoes of your new partner. How would you feel if your partner’s ex still had access to the house and was re-hanging wedding photos on the wall? It’s creepy AF.
That would be a huge red flag to me, and I’d be running out the door. You really need to protect your new partner from this BS.
And if reconciliation is still possible in your mind, you shouldn’t be with a new person.
Successful reconciliation is incredibly rare… but the few that are successful, tends to be because the LBS makes it exceedingly difficult for the WAS/WS to return. Letting her touch stuff in your house sends a signal that you’re weak as sh*t.
Personally, I’d say nothing to her about it, but I’d pull the wedding photos down and place them in storage. And I also have a long hard think about my new partner’s feelings and put some things in place to make sure this stuff doesn’t happen again.
