Originally Posted by Spiral
She also cleaned the house, did the dishes, and the laundry. She said she wanted to help. Some ideas of what to say went through my head. I opted for thank you. I know I probably should have responded differently, but the house looked great and the dog was happy. So, I kept my mouth shut.
Cleaning/dishes/laundry is odd enough but I might be inclined to just appreciate the chores and say "thanks" like you did.

But hanging the wedding photos? Now that you need a psychologist to analyze.

Originally Posted by bttrfly
Originally Posted by LH19
Would you be open to reconciliation?
That's the million dollar question, isn't it?

Spiral, were I in your shoes, all joking aside on the mots doux, I'd tread very carefully. I think I'd also spend some serious thought on what I want because she's definitely paving the way home, for whatever purpose, who knows?
I agree you better dig deep and decide what you truly want. These signs could be nothing - the fogginess of a WS mind - but if she does propose R at some point you best know what you want instead of just reacting.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21