She also cleaned the house, did the dishes, and the laundry. She said she wanted to help. Some ideas of what to say went through my head. I opted for thank you. I know I probably should have responded differently, but the house looked great and the dog was happy. So, I kept my mouth shut.
Cleaning/dishes/laundry is odd enough but I might be inclined to just appreciate the chores and say "thanks" like you did.
But hanging the wedding photos? Now that you need a psychologist to analyze.
Originally Posted by bttrfly
Originally Posted by LH19
Would you be open to reconciliation?
That's the million dollar question, isn't it?
Spiral, were I in your shoes, all joking aside on the mots doux, I'd tread very carefully. I think I'd also spend some serious thought on what I want because she's definitely paving the way home, for whatever purpose, who knows?
I agree you better dig deep and decide what you truly want. These signs could be nothing - the fogginess of a WS mind - but if she does propose R at some point you best know what you want instead of just reacting.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21