Yes. At my BD, my husband had a medical condition that was not being treated appropriately by his doctor and was serious.
I really understand what you're saying.
That said, you can only do so much, and when it's to the detriment of your own mental and physical health, you need to step back and put the oxygen mask on yourself first (because the plane is going down, metaphorically speaking)
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
