How about this? You STOP telling a story and simply present the facts as they are, without embellishment or hypothesizing endlessly about possible outcomes?
Again I am sorry to bother you with my questions. I didn’t want to pull the card but I have a diagnosis on the autism spectrum. H doesn’t but we both think he could also be on the spectrum. One of the symptoms is obsessive behaviour and endlessly thinking about all possible outcomes.
This was hard on H too, and he asked me to stop talking about scenarios, so I did. Or at least try I do sometimes slip.
Simply present the facts is not that easy when you sometimes wonder what is the truth and when his answers change. And then hearing it could be gaslighting doesn’t help either in knowing what is reality.
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