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As a means of showing H that I'm not dragging things along

Why would you give two s***s what he thinks? Why would you be making big, life decisions based on appearances?

He can think what he wants - that you’re dragging it out, not dragging it out, that you’re being fair, unfair… blah blah blah.

Marching, you make decisions for YOU now.

If you don’t want a divorce, say “I’m not going to help you with the divorce proceedings.”

If you’ve had enough of this man-child, say “I’m filing. You’ll hear from my lawyer shortly.”