As a means of showing H that I'm not dragging things along, I gave him a "carrot" as my DB coach calls it, telling him about my decision re: which country to D in. I also said that an additional step must be taken that his L didn't mention. This additional step may require hiring yet another lawyer in yet another city. H seems frustrated.
I am noticing a pattern. H does not seem to have done his due diligence regarding D. Just now, for the second time, he asked me a basic legal question that he could easily Google the answer to. Is it too aggressive to tell him that he could look up this information himself? Or tell him the answer?
Or a combination of both? "I believe it is like this, but perhaps it's best if you look into it, too."
This is his D, he should be doing the heavy lifting. Just Google it!
It almost feels like when we were together and he'd ask me where X was in the fridge instead of opening the containers to check for himself. That was annoying then, and it's even more so now that he's firing me as his wife and still expecting this type of assistance.
I guess what the vets say here about WAS's being lazy about D is proving to be true. H pressured me about D the past two months and during that time did very little research on it.
