But then he did have the PA and he said it wasn’t about the sex anymore, it wasn’t even that special, with me it was more special but he was willing to give up on good sex if he had that “calm” feeling he experienced being with her.
It sounds like he's still saying he prefers her in a very twisted way. A very weird and disrespectful excuse to continue the affair. It's all very unfair to you.
Originally Posted by Bat
Just to let you know how close we are (were?), he even shared these details with me right after it happened and later on more details.
Did he volunteer these details or did you ask for them? How did you feel when he shared these details?
I really don't like the way he's treating you, Bat. He sounds extremely manipulative.
