FwdMvmnt,

Good job standing up for yourself and firmly saying no to an open marriage.

IHS is indeed incredibly difficult, especially when your W is so openly cheating and disrespecting you. At least mine attempted (poorly) to hide it?

Drop the rope for sure. Easier said than done. You made a mistake now try to be better going forward.

Keep working at it and your incredible list of Spiritual, Emotional, and Physical goals...you'll get there.

Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21