She reiterated that even if it isn't useful for the legal strategy, it would still be good for me to ask for details so that I can get the full picture of who H is. Otherwise, I'd be in denial of his betrayal. By knowing the full extent of his betrayal, it will be easier to drop him.
Originally Posted by marching
I don't appreciate this pressure to ask for details of the affairs.
I'm no psychologist / IC, but can't say I understand this suggestion. Imo finding out more and more information is going to cause you to spin and get riled up more, and perhaps dwell on the details.
Originally Posted by marching
I have an appointment to try out a new IC next week. I'll see how that goes before deciding which one to continue with.
Smart move.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21