If I am reading this correctly, rather than having an A, it sounds like you opened up your marriage?
I am think some very important information here is what boundaries were set when the both of you with the help of a marriage counselor agreed to him having sex with this woman? Were the consequences discussed of what might happen if this was done? What would happen and how would you both feel if he simply wasn’t just “getting it out of his system”?
I think these might be important details.
Yes you are right about this. That was the situation in oct and no the mc didn’t agree but it was our agreement. When it was done he would break it off and accept the help of MC to get over this. No matter how hard, he would do it. But he didn’t.
Me 41 H 34 T 14 No kids 1 dog First BD 3-22 ILYBNILWY Second BD EA (LD online) comfirmed 6-22 PA 10-22 Moving out 1-23