to me it's not running away. to me a red flag is just that, a signal to stop, pay attention and act accordingly. i'm not wasting time on red flags.
Makes sense. That’s why I don’t classify all flags as red or green. There is a yellow category for me. Sometimes I need to understand or know the person a little better to throw a flag into the red or green zone.
I have been super quick at calling at red flags red or green flags green when they were actually the opposite.
Now, there are glaringly red flags I will walk away from immediately.
And for me, of course I have a bigger picture than what has been written here, it’s yellow flags for me. His green flags are more than his yellow right now. And nothing is red to me.
We all have different views of what is red, green, or yellow for us
