Odds against

[LH19]

Subconsciously I think you post here for truth darts so here goes:

He expresses very verbal interest in me.

Words

Twice he was supposed to call me, twice he texted at 11pm he was busy and I was probably sleeping, blah blah blah.

Does that make you feel connected, safe and comfortable?

It irks me when I ask a question, and it goes unanswered. It’s like being totally ignored.

Does that make you feel connected, safe and comfortable?

He has said he doesn’t want to mess this up over this.

Words

But he is good for a day then nothing. He misses opportunities to make dates. Not a peep today. I know he has 2 kids, full custody, but they are teens.

Does that make you feel connected, safe and comfortable?

He just admittedly hates texting, he doesn’t need communication for connection and I do. It’s been a problem before in his relationships.

Excuses

It’s the times we live in.

Excuses

It used to be phone conversations when you are first dating to get to know someone. Now it’s texting.

Excuses

Truth be told, I think it’s his flakiness.

Excuses

He’s been late to 2 dates, had to call one off last minute.

Does that make you feel connected, safe and comfortable?

Forgets he has commitments, etc. missed promised phone calls….. he might say he is very interested but his actions show me otherwise.

Finally some truth

And we all know I like to see action.

Do we?

The one bit of action he gives me is he makes dates, he wants to see me, but I don’t think he can get his sh!t together .

What typically happens after a date?

Oh well. He does have his very good attributes, but if this is the beginning, this is his best foot forward, lol. It’ll probably get worse

Excuses

Did I mention he is very attractive? Lol .

If you are being honest, this is what it is all about. The only reason you are tolerating this $hitty behavior. Maybe this is your kryptonite too???