Eagle I want to start out by saying I think you are doing a great job post divorce!
I do want to ask you one question. Does the below continue if he is in a relationship with another woman?
Originally Posted by Eagle3
That he finds the psychological help which he know he needs within the conversations with me, because I am the only one who knows him so well and who always shows understanding and compassion. Yesterday he texted me again to thank me for the support I give him and that he will never take it for granted again like he used to. That he wants to do the same for me. If I struggle with something that I can contact him at all times.
Hi LH,
Good question, which I actually already gave in my thread of 29/12:
"What I do know now, however, is that it had to be that one of us 2 would meet someone new, that we wouldn't be able to be in each other's lives. I also made this clear to him. We are still way too intertwined that this wouldn't work for me. He realizes this and knows that this was also one of the reasons why it didn't work in his relationships. I was always in the background. For me, however, this is also the reason why I don't allow anyone else in my life today. But I don’t need this either for now."
So no, I will not do this when he is in an R with another woman, nor if I would meet somebody myself.
