Rules for thee rulez for Moi. If ya meet someone, play it day by day.. If something isnt going the way you want it too, steer things your the way you would like. Dont over correct, just slightly nudge things. I am not the aggressive promiscuous man I was when I was younger. I play it slow now, and am going to let the women know I am now seeing, I am just taking it slow. Maybe not in a direct way, but, definitley not pushing anything. But, I am in no hurry to get hurt or marry again.. I am just enjoying the company, and I think the one I am having dinner with is too.