I was so terrified to be alone that I catered to my kids. I’ve stopped a lot of it but it’s hard. I wish S22 would move out and have come very close to kicking him out but i decided to wait. I partly chickened out and partly think I shouldn’t do something in anger. He’s been working full time for 6 months so it’s not terrible but I am mad.
D20 has stepped up and was saving for another car. Hers kept breaking down which caused me a lot of anxiety. One day I decided it wasn’t my problem and stopped. About that time my ex fixed her car then decided it wasn’t safe so he got her a new one.
Things are changing fast for me now and I guess I’m glad I don’t have to worry about the car anymore.
He’s doing more than buying things but I think his girlfriend is running the show. I also don’t think it will last.
