Thanks so much for that, BL42. I can be very hard on myself sometimes. I've always been a planner. Not having goals freaks me out. I guess I can turn it around by having more achievable self-care goals. Like meditating for 5 min every day.
Gonna consult with L re: evidence of affairs. Pretty sure IC is operating from outdated information on divorce laws. Yeah, I definitely don't want to seek out info about H's infidelity right now.
