Maybe I'm confused, but my understanding is you were separated for years and legally divorced before your ExW started dating another man. That's quite a bit different situation than an AP. Granted, I understand there are still associated feelings.
Yes, but being divorced does not mean all feelings, emotions etc are just turned off, especially after 32 years knowing her and 18 years of marriage.. Oh well, moving forward, moving forward every day, one step at a time.
