It's been awhile...good to hear from you! Hopefully the finalization of the process has brought you some peace; sounds like you're in a much better place than 3+ years ago. Enjoy your relationship with your children, which is far more valuable in the long run than his GF. Glad the job is going so well. When I asked you your post-D pans last March you list things like: "new wardrobe, hair, kittens, sewing, exercise, and dating." How are those? Keep in touch :-)
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21