So far, so good. He’s a god awful texter, but I can tease him about it. He’s a little flaky. And he says whatever is on his mind, as in he isn’t the smoothest talker .
But he’s very sweet, he makes a real serious effort to see me. He’s funny and smart. The quirks i actually find endearing. We can laugh together about it. He wants to do things and have experiences together. We have some differences, but we are both open minded about them. I feel like I can be me around him.
Hockey guy has been popping in and out. He drunk texted me the other night when k happened to be drunk as well. I told him I don’t want to get back on the roller coaster. He did apologize. I do have a soft spot for him. He really is a very good soul. I honestly only wish for the best for him.
One day at a time. I’m having fun getting to know him.
Did I mention he is very attractive? Lol .
So a man who Fs with a girl’s feelings and uses a woman for sex is a great soul? No offense Spiral lol.
Watch out for smooth talkers. They've had practice. For example, if you text "I don't want to get back on the roller coaster" and he responds with "How about we try the merry-go-round this time? There are painted horses that go up and down just a little bit. Lights. Mirrors. I know a place. I'll bring flowers this time and my best behavior. Promise." That guy is probably trouble. Trust me. Ask any woman I know.
Oh, that's good. Keep giving me notes Spiral.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
In my defense LH, I'm using women for romance, not sex. A subtle difference, perhaps, but an essential distinction nonetheless. I always tell her that well in advance too. (And BL42, when you say it, look into her eyes and gently caress the air surrounding her hand, almost but not quite touching. Brace yourself for rejection, of course, but know that it comes less frequently than you'd think especially as the years go by and most certainly if you've adopted the air of a flirtatious rake from the outset. If possible, flirt boldly in front of a female audience while utterly ignoring everyone in the room except one woman.)
Watch out for smooth talkers. They've had practice. For example, if you text "I don't want to get back on the roller coaster" and he responds with "How about we try the merry-go-round this time? There are painted horses that go up and down just a little bit. Lights. Mirrors. I know a place. I'll bring flowers this time and my best behavior. Promise." That guy is probably trouble. Trust me. Ask any woman I know.
