Whoa whoa whoa. File for divorce if that’s what you feel is right for you.
Here’s another thing I will tell you if you do go for divorce. Do NOT put timelines on anything! Feel and embrace every moment of the journey. Everything is going to unfold exactly the way it was supposed to when it’s supposed to.
Doug my last sentence was me just being honest. The day I found the passcode on my exs phone changed my life and it’s never been the same. I’m not saying it’s not better now because it is I’m just saying that there’s a part of me that was lost that day and I can still feel it I’m my soul.
Doug no matter what happens your life is never going to be the same again.
Hope that makes sense.
Thanks, LH. I can always count on you. Let's meet up some time in real life to pound back a few.
Do you remember any differences in your behavior or within your household when you knew that your wife was out and that nothing would change her mind? She wanted to feel the butterflies again or whatever and had told her parents; there was no going back...she had crossed the rubicon.