Completely understand your emotions and feelings about seeing W checking out OM. That's completely valid.
However, if your goal is to save your marriage my guess is you're going to have to swallow your pride one some of these things...even if you should've have to. Although not right, her behaviors in this case are relatively benign compared to what they could be.
Sorry man, it's not easy or fair - but you're going to have to be ready to put up with a little bit in the hopes of keeping your family together and marriage whole.
Just my two cents...maybe others disagree.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
