Basically on cruise control. Had a rough moment this past Sunday. D13 had two bball games in a neighboring county. OM showed up for some reason. I saw him but didn’t acknowledge it. W saw him and commented that she realized why I looked angry. I was trying not to. I told her I wasn’t angry. I said I don’t understand why he is here or how he would know about the games. Nothing else was said. However, multiple times throughout the day I turned to say something and she would be staring at him. That did piss me off, however I kept it to myself. Until the next day. She asked if something was bothering me so I told her. I told her very calmly what I witnessed, said it was disrespectful, and I didn’t appreciate it. She became angry, started getting loud. I stopped her and said if she was going to yell at me then I was not continuing the convo. She calmed down. Said I was wrong, lying, full of it. I told her we would have to agree to disagree and she left the room. She approached me later and said she was making sure not look at him. I said, unwisely, “I guess you just can’t help it, I hate to think how it is when you two are at work”. She talked to me again at bedtime and said she really didn’t think she was staring at him and she was sorry if she did. I accepted her apology. There was a little from her about still not knowing what she wants. I basically said I understand what you are saying yet I don’t really understand. Back to “normal” again.
