Now, it seems that she wants to shake things up heavily. She has booked several impulsive vacation trips which is quite unusual for her and seems to be running away whenever opportunity arises. Also, made several big purchases in a span of a month. Lost a lot of weight naturally.
One day she is stating that she is tired from everything, especially her work. Another day she is saying that she has never been as delighted and positive as right now. One day we have normal conversation and she even hugs me/initiates contact herself. The next time she is cold and avoids me.
I’d happily wager $50 she is having an affair. I’m sorry to say so 🤷♂️ but that’s just the reality here.
It may be any number of things - an ex that was taken when you got married and is now available, a co-worker, she may be questioning her sexuality… the possibilities are endless.
Most importantly, realise there’s NOTHING you can do to wake her up. Any thing you do, say, threaten, offer or suggest will actually push her away.
The advice you’ve been given has been spot on. The only chance you have is to happily agree and walk away from her with a huge smile on your face. You want her to think you’re excited about being single!
I’m sorry you’re here. This is hard to deal with at any age, but in your late twenties having only just got married it would be very difficult.
In 10 year’s time, you’ll look back on this as a blessing - especially because you hadn't had children together yet.
Be strong, calm, emotionless, happy and let it all go. Imagine you’re a cork floating on the ocean in the middle of a storm. Once the storm passes, you’ll still be there, happily floating along.
