TMS,
Sorry you're here. You've been getting terrific advice so far.

Do you have joint credit cards? If so, separate them ASAP so you're not legally responsible for her debt.

Hang in there and make it a priority to read either DBusting or Divorce Remedy ASAP.

Do NOT share them with your W, nor should you share this site with her. These resources are for you, and you alone.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver