Originally Posted by TellMeSo
Do you have any tips whether I should propose a date if she reaches out or wait for her to propose spending time together?
DO NOT propose a date. That's pursuit. Give her more distance than she wants. Act as if you're completely happy with life and you're excited by the prospect of freedom. Make her curious why you're not pursuing and wonder if she might regret losing you.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21